When the pandemic began in March 2020, University of Virginia assistant professor Gail Lovette and her husband, like many parents, found themselves trying to navigate the closing of schools for their three children, along with managing their own full-time jobs.
But the real curveball came that September, when Lovette’s husband was no longer allowed to work remotely.
Suddenly, Lovette was the sole caregiver for most of the day. This meant, among many duties, overseeing virtual school from the family’s basement on a daily basis. Even though she had years of experience as a classroom teacher and administrator before coming to UVA, having a first-grade son with attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder made it a major struggle.
“Our parent-child relationship was very different than the relationships that he had with his teachers and specialists at school – so it made trying to fill both roles extremely difficult,” Lovette said. “Our home environment was just not an effective proxy for the support that he typically received during the school day, and he no longer had in-person access to the specialists who normally worked with him, including occupational therapy.”
Lovette, whose research interests focus on the preparation of teachers and administrators in literacy, spent hours every day sitting next to her son while attempting every strategy she knew to keep him engaged with school and to mitigate the challenging behaviors that he started showing due to the online format and the lack of structure.
It was an exhausting exercise for both.