Shelton, whom Winborne had met at UVA, from which she also graduated, was pursuing a master’s degree in nursing at the University of Pennsylvania. She’d already earned a nursing degree from Drexel University in Philadelphia.
“So I just made a phone call and said, ‘Hey, how you doing? What’s going on? I’m new to town,’” Dorsey recalled. “I was dating someone at the time. She was dating someone at the time. I think we went to the movies, went to a concert, and we’ve been together ever since.”
They married on 12/12/12. A few years later, they moved back to Charlottesville, Shelton’s hometown, where she’s a nurse practitioner at Pediatric Associates.
At the time, Dorsey had a job doing background checks for the federal government. He was intrigued, though, when Charlottesville firefighter Celia Thompson, who was married to the best friend of Dorsey’s father-in-law, mentioned one day that the city that was looking to hire more firefighters.
“So I just threw my name in the hat,” Dorsey said. “I went in cold, with no experience or anything.”
Dorsey was accepted into the training program and he passed on his first attempt. He graduated from the fire department’s academy in March 2018. His current rank is firefighter/emergency medical technician/chauffeur, and he works out of the Ridge Street Station in downtown Charlottesville. (A chauffeur is a firefighter who’s qualified to drive the fire engine.)
“It’s a great profession,” said Dorsey, who’s the president of Local 2363 of the International Association for Fire Fighters. “I love it. I think in five years I may have had five days that I didn’t want to go to work. Maybe.”
His work reminds him of his days as a football player. “The camaraderie,” Dorsey said. “We train together. We sleep in the same house. We eat together. It’s so many correlations with a football team.”
Dorsey, who was born in Louisville, Kentucky, moved with his family to Jacksonville, Florida, when he was in elementary school His father served in the U.S. Navy and was stationed at Cecil Field. After graduating from the prestigious Bolles School in Jacksonville, Dorsey enrolled at UVA on a football scholarship in 2000.
He redshirted that season, the Wahoos’ last under head coach George Welsh. In 2001, Al Groh’s first year as Virginia’s head coach, Dorsey appeared in four games. He played in every game as a redshirt sophomore in 2002 and started five games in 2003.
Dorsey did not always take his studies seriously, however, and that sidelined him in 2004. He was placed on academic probation and had to leave school. He spent the year working as a bartender in Atlanta.
“I just didn’t apply myself,” Dorsey said of his academic issues.
Rachel Most, a dean in the College of Arts & Sciences, and Kathryn Jarvis, then the athletics department’s associate director of academic affairs, stayed in touch with Dorsey and encouraged him to complete his bachelor’s degree in anthropology. Spurred by their advocacy, he returned to Grounds and graduated in 2005.
“They were huge in me coming back,” Dorsey said.